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Letter

March-April 2021

You keep calling me strong

Who does that really serve?

Kristy Frenken-Francis

To the people who have called me resilient: I know you think that you were giving me some big compliment. I get it, I do. The first time someone called me resilient, I was young and terrified that no one would ever see how hard I was fighting. Then, the phrase “you are resilient” filled […] More »